The feeling of being in the right place at the right time doesn't come around all that often for most people, even those actually focused on personal development. So we're stumbling along until things become clear, till they make sense. We keep going forwards or backwards, however, looking for the next big thing. In the meantime we're stuck feeling our feelings, thinking out thoughts and going about our routines.

You can call it autopilot, habit, unconsciousness, but there's this way we go abo...
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Trust is like faith - an invisible force that can bind or break, create or destroy. Trusting others is both a bold leap forward and a carefully calculated risk. Trusting yourself is quite different in terms of the experience. The outcome of misplaced trust in others is much the same level of disappointment as misplaced trust in yourself, however the process of arriving at the choice to trust yourself is different to that of trusting others.

Trusting others is a choice based on your perspective...
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Each of us has a story. We carry our story with us and repeat it over and over so that we feel safe and warm. Things make sense when we can make a story out of them. The trouble is when your story starts to bring you down. You don't like yourself anymore and don't want to live your life. It's pretty depressing. In fact it sucks. There's nothing anyone can say to change the story or make it better. The best we can hope for from others is for them to negate our feelings as being unfounded, yet ...
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Seeing how others affect us is an interesting thing to observe. Whether we're individuo-centric, other-focused or an objective analyser, it can be tricky separating our sense of self from the effects of others. Throughout the different perspectives we can adopt, there are a number of common themes underlying and linking them. These themes are what link us together as people.

It's evident in relationships and between cultures how people become drawn to each other based on some underlying identi...
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It's one thing having success or achieving things, it's another being super successful. You may believe you're not one of those people who is destined to be super successful. Ask yourself this...if those super successful people you think of had no marketing team, no manager, no charisma, would you even know they exist?

So if you've ever wanted to be super successful, and you learn how to market, you learn how to manage and you learn to be awesome...would you be able to be super succesful? The ...
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